We got a puppy! To help our daughter with special needs.

So we’ve got some big news this month. We’ve been looking for a year and we were lucky enough this month to finally add a puppy to our family! We weren’t exactly planning on a puppy we actually had said yes to a 3 year old rescue but the rescue bit one of the foster family’s children so she wasn’t able to be placed in our home.

We had really been thinking about this and Sensory Dad especially wanted this. We set our sights on a Boston Terrier, I didn’t want anything too big. Sensory Dad wanted a dog that would play. Boston Terriers are known to be really great family dogs and our vet said in all her years she’s never heard of one biting! YAY! Boston Terriers also have short fur which means no grooming, which our last dog had to be groomed so we were excited about that. Miss S loves the way her fur feels and loves to pet her. She loves to carry her around Stella has done really well with Miss S’s sometimes not so gentle ways (we are working on “Gentle Hands!”).

So we crossed our fingers, drove 600+ miles and surprised Miss S by telling her that we were adopting a puppy. She was surprised, we met a lady in a parking lot holding our 2 pound new bundle of joy.

Meet Stella.

It’s been a little over two weeks and I’m not going to lie it has been very overwhelming but we are hoping that the puppy training phase goes by quickly and the benefits far outweigh the additional stress!

Although we are still in the honeymoon phase we have already seen the benefits with Miss S. Stella so far, helps her focus on something, gives her company and listens to her read. I wasn’t really prepared for the training we need to do with Miss S. We are working on teaching her how to “be a tree” when Stella starts trying to get her feet. Last night we decided that right now we will need to always be present when Miss S is playing with her so we can work on training Stella bite inhibition.

It’s a lot. Surprisingly I feel like special needs parenting has prepared me so much for puppy parenting. Puppy schedule…no problem. Behavior management…easy peasy.

Right now, it’s less sleep than the little that we were getting already, lots of accidents and never ending snuggles.

But the other morning I was talking to Miss S on the way to school about her aggression and she told me that at home right now she doesn’t want to scare Stella. So we’ve seen her keep her cool. I’m not sure if this is good or bad, but we will take it.

When Miss S is upset Stella has been a great to have Stella as a snuggle buddy and she loves to lick tears away. Licking was one of things I didn’t know how Miss S would handle and she loves it. It puts a smile on her face and she starts to giggle.

Do you have pets in your home that help your special needs child?

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